Friday, September 14, 2007

My MOM!



The best friend for me in life is my mom. I and my sister don’t know what good things we did in the previous birth to get such a loving and caring mom. You can ask that all moms are caring and loving only and what so special in my case? I will say that my mom will be the only lady to have the worstest experiences ever which if experienced by any other would have turned them mad or run away. Well, I don’t want to talk about those in this post.


To say as the plus and minus of my mom there is very few on the latter one. To say on the pluses, first I will mention her ultimate love and caring. She has spent many sleepless nights in fanning me and my sister during power-cuts and what to say when any of us is sick? Even the trained nurses wouldn’t look after in such a way as my mom does. It is not only for me and my family members, but for any person whom she decides to help she helps in such a way that no one else is required to look after.


My dynamic mom!

As her second plus I would say her great skill in cooking. I hope I don’t want to explain this as all my friends will tell about this.

To talk about her pluses we can keep talking on and on. There is something that words cannot express and should be felt. She is such a patient, innocent and at the same time a brilliant lady that she has come over all the hurdles in her life. She says that she is a coward and fit for nothing. But no one will accept her saying and this thing I will say as her minus. She keeps telling that she is ignorant and even when she gets the smallest percentage of anger; she says that she gets anger so much which is a bad habit of hers. But when compared to ours it will not at all come into the category of getting angry.

She is a M.A in philosophical sciences and she is a great veena player and a very good singer. Bachelors of Veena and music from the esteemed Banaras Hindu University (BHU). She was so good that her veena master gave his own veena to my mom as a token of appreciation. She completed B.Lib from the same university and she secured the FIRST RANK in WORLD LEVEL Bhagavat gita examination. She worked in BHU library and discontinued the job after marriage. Not only that job but all the achievements went off after marriage. Still the job is vacant and the reason which the person in charge told that they couldn’t find a replacement for my mom in terms of honesty and goodwill. What a great praise! No…it is the fact. As far as I know, she is the best woman in this world and obviously most credits goes to my grandpa and grandma in bringing up such a great person.

If my mom had been brave enough to go on full fledged development of her skills I bet she would be in great fame now. But all is for good only. If that had been the case she couldn’t have been as close to us as what she is now. In a summary, my mom is a 57 year old kid and all she knows is love, care, affection and goodwill and above all GOD! She trusts Him so much and this has made me also baktimaan. There are many things which happened to my mom in her post-marriage life. Many terror things which are more terror than what is shown in a worst torture featuring Tamil films. But beyond all that she shines. And that’s my mom!! I love you mom...soooooooooo much……and if I have a next birth I should be your dad or mom to show in return...But I’m sure that I can never ever be like you. YOU ARE INCOMPARABLE MOM! Even GOD is inferior to you in many ways as far as I’m concerned. I hope He too will accept it.

17 comments:

Santhosh kumar.S said...

yes machi.......that is the motherly love....

sathukudi said...

mahci after reading this post,the only thing that hit my mind was...ur gifted..no more words..
about ur mother's veena... really touching.. that can be a student's greatest achievement da..

Mahesh said...

@ sano
ஆம் நண்பா! ஈடு இணையற்றது!

@ sathukudi

ya.really gifted da..and reg that achivement..namellam waste da..hee hee

Mahesh said...
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Unknown said...

Namma amma pol varuma! Chellam...Anbu theivam da athu..

This is a just a gist about her. Years are not enough to describe her unexpected and uncomprehending pure love and affection.

WE ARE REALLY GIFTED AND PRAY THAT EVERY BIRTH WE GET THE SAME MOM AND WE BEING HER CHILDREN...LOVING and SUPPORTING HER...AL(L)WAYS.

LOVE IS TOO short a word to express our feelings....dei,magi,m seriously trying to implement on a biiiiiiiiiiig word which expresses our love. :)

Prasi said...

yup magi.. you are indeed gifted to have such a great MOM.. have to meet her da..
a very nice post da.. :)

Mahesh said...

@ sowmya

WE - THE GIFTED!!

@ prasi

Always welcome to my home..but unga busy schedula ungalala vara mudiyumanu theriyale..

JAYASHRI said...

yeah magi,
first of all...good composition..i was in to tears..(konjam high E.Q)no doubt..there is just no replacement to mothers love da...wish cud meet ur mom some time..

Mahesh said...

@ jayasri

Ya..nothing could replace mom's affection and love..and you all are welcome anytime to my home to meet my mom..

ViJaY said...

@mahesh
Sorry for taking so long to comment on such a touching post da... Really, i hav read this post 3 times now and hav forgotten each time to comment... I mean ur mother is like a mother for all of us.. U hav done sumthng very good to hav her as ur mother... And knowing the difficulties she has faced, indeed she is a dynamic mother... And not to forget the delicious delicacies she makes... Particularly, I liked the dosais with chutney and mullangi sambhar which she prepared and gav us today... Pathella.. Late a comment pannalum, hot n spicya finish pannenla.. Ur mom rox da!!!

Mahesh said...

@ vijay

hmmm..ya..i thought of thrashing you for not commenting for so long..but latesta comment pannitte...cool..and i felt your statement that "samba missed the dosais" in evening only when i was seeing our b'day pics collection..

Sundar said...

Your mother is really a wonderful woman. I knew it the first time I saw her, she understands everyone, and is friendly with people of our age... She's cool!

Sundar.

Mahesh said...

@ sundar

ya da...i left out her friendly charecteristic... thanks you added that too...


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his grace is sufficient for you said...

machi sorry 4 late reply....... dai u r really gifted da, whenever i come to ur home i really enjoy,and i love to talk with ur mom and the way she talks and that loud smile i really enjoy.........

ippo namba matter ku varuvom....the days we had lunch together in ur home,i think nan en vettula saptadhu veda un vettula dan naraya time saptu irrukan..... hehe... k machi indeed a nice post........but romba senti da ....

Mahesh said...

@ manoj

Nice to see u after a long time in blogs side. Senti post...? I wrote wat is there in mind...but when it comes to such things obviously senti gets added...

Waiting for ur update in blog.

manipayal said...

Dear mahesh and sowmya, really touched with your post and the love and care you have for your mother.I am also proud as an Indian and from tamilnadu seeing you fellows showering your love for your mother.I would love to meet such a great lady. I am in saudi arabia now and when I am in chennai I will try to meet you. Pl convey my regards to your mother. May God - sorry - your mother bless you.

Asmara said...

tats was a touching post by the way!